Sonia and Michael's Wedding at the Oaks at Salem

“Love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it”

— Rabindranath Tagore

Michael and Sonia met at a Jazz Bar on Bourbon street. OR at an orthopedics conference where they were both presenting their work from graduate school. (depends on who you ask). After thriving through Covid together they knew this was real and we started planning all the things.

As Duke is near and dear to their hearts we captured their engagement between Sarah P. Duke Gardens and Duke Chapel. And all their wedding festivities were in and around Durham.

I initially met the rest of their family at the Mehndi ceremony at their home. It never ceases to overwhelm me as couples invite me into these sacred and life giving moments in their lives. Their families were already familiar with each other and blended easily as her family taught his, with great love, the meaning behind each moment.

A Mehndi is a way of wishing the couple health and prosperity as they make the next step into marriage but I love how it forces them to rely on the help of their friends and family to feed them, fix their hair, assist with potty breaks, shoe removal and communication. It forces them to slow down, not check their phone and simply be present with each other and their family while the henna dries.

I would love to see more of this for all my couples. Michael’s friends and family were certainly excited as they learned and experienced each new tradition.

As for their Haldi Ceremony, the celebrations continued and the familiarity with each others’ families grew. As each member gently and intentionally placed the turmeric and other spices on their bodies for wellness and good fortune, it quickly turned to a fun filled smearing of the yogurt and spices all over them to ensure the best wedding day “glow.” Everyone had a blast!

The wedding day welcomed more and more family and friends into the fold as they danced and laughed through each ritual and tradition. Michael and his crew had a blast celebrating his Baraat wedding entrance and her family greeted him with open arms.

Michael even included our very Southern tradition of burying the bourbon on the ceremony grounds and digging it up to ensure no rain on the wedding day. (it worked!) Both being proficient at ballroom dancing, they dazzled their guests during the reception and also tipped their hats to their NOLA beginnings and included a beignet truck instead of cake for their desserts!

You guys thank you so much for inviting us to be a part of your big weekend!

Instagram Handles for all the Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola with @jhaganphotog

Ceremony Venue: @oaksatsalem 

Reception Venue: @durhamcookery

Planning: @southernskiesevents

HMU: @weddedkiss

Henna: @hennaartbynadia and @mysticalhennabypriya

Florals: @beckettfloral

DJ: @dowoakevents

Catering: @limenlemon_indiangrill and @rocky_top_caters and @nukkad.usa

Bar: @withatwistbartendingservice

Dessert: @squaredoughnuts

Rentals: @curatedeventsraleigh, @americanpartyrentals and @greenhousepickersisters

Puppy Care: @barkandbonenc

Fashion: @Indochino and @bhldn

Rings: @emilychelseajewelry, @brilliantearth and @Thorum 

Officiant: Priya Amaresh

Haldi Venue: @achoteldurham

Time to Pop the Big Question!

“Boldness be my friend”

— Skakespeare

You’ve got this my friend! And I’m here to help! This day has been building for a long time and I’m sure you’ve thought through every reason why you love this person and every reason why now is the time to pop the question.

What you maybe haven’t thought through as much, is HOW, WHEN, and WHERE to do it! That’s where I come in. I want this moment to be perfect for you and I will do whatever it takes to make your vision come to life. Below you will find a few common scenarios with photos to help you visualize what this might look like for you and your love, but know that I am willing to do something completely different if these don’t quite resonate.

Scenario 1: I am hiding in the Bushes.

In this scenario, you and I will predetermine exactly where I will be hiding, and exactly where you will be standing to pop the question. I will remain hidden through the entire moment, and then pop out of the bushes to say congrats and hello and then take you guys around the area for a few more “posed” photos.

Scenario 2: I am a “Nature Photographer”

In this scenario, I will get into place before you, set up a tripod to look more like a nature photographer who happens to be on location that day. We will have basic greetings when you guys walk close enough to me and I will offer to capture a few photos for you and email them. Once I put you into place and snag a basic photo or two, that will be your cue to pop the question.

Scenario 3: A pre-planned Couple Shoot

In this scenario you have to figure out WHY you’re having a couple’s shoot so as not to alert them. Some have “won a giveaway,” some were “gifted” a shoot from their parents, some do regular shoots together anyway and it’s not out of the ordinary at all. Half way through the shoot once we have reached the location you and I discussed in advance I’ll offer to do individual headshots of each of you and while I have their attention, you’ll get into position.

Other things to consider:

• Do you want to hike to reach the view, or would you rather step out of the car and not risk getting sweaty or your outfits messy? The three shoots above all have views without the hike.

• Do you want to be in regular clothes to not alert them, or have an excuse to dress up? (dinner afterwards for example)

• The weather doesn’t always cooperate. I’m ready to be flexible with date and time and location, but you need to manage expectations if it doesn’t play out exactly like you envision it. Often the crazy mountain weather simply makes for a better story afterward anyway. The cuties below were published in a magazine after the weather we encountered.

Additionally, you may want your day to stand out from the rest. Fancy proposing in a canoe? Want to pop a bottle of champagne to celebrate? Need me to set up a sign or flowers? I’m more than willing to work with whatever you can come up with.

No matter what, it’s going to be perfect. You are going to be nervous and something is inevitably going to have to change last minute, but it will still be perfect. I’ve got you and I’m so excited to help you make it a moment you’ll never forget.

Alex and Daniel's Wedding at the Oaks at Salem

“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction”

— Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Where to begin with these two? I need to start with Toni and Kim as I met Alex’s parents first, and I must say, I absolutely fell in love with them and wanted to adopt them immediately. We got to hang out at the Oaks a couple times during the planning process including an adorable video chat with Alex (on the West Coast) and I knew we would all be friends for life. The way they cared for each other and cared about every detail along the way was incredibly sweet. It was no surprise when I met Daniel and his parents on the wedding day, I loved them instantly as well. Everyone was so invested in this sweet couple. From running errands, to making sure they had drinks and getting hyped over chants and cheers for photos!

Thennnn came the first looks. I could barely see to keep shooting. Mom made sure she had each borrowed and blue item while Dad wiped her tears. Daniel left her speechless and then they were ready to party.

This crew did not disappoint. If I didn’t know any better I’d say every single one of them was a paid professional hype man. They brought all the excitement to the day and made sure these babes were overwhelmed with love. (not to mention SIX heartfelt speeches during dinner!)

What an incredible weekend Alex and Daniel!! Thank you so much for including me!! It was an honor to witness your love and vast friendships. You have an amazing group surrounding you.

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Christina Perkins

Venue : The Oaks at Salem

Dress: Martina Liana at Coastal Knot

Rings: Derco Diamonds

Hair: Mena Garcia Beauty

Make Up: Mena Garcia Beauty

Florist: Meristem Floral

Officiant: Kevin Grant

Live Music: Udeshi Hargett Violinist

DJ: All Events DJs

Video: Thomas Blake Films

Catering: Catering By Design

Rentals: Curated Events

Jamie and Drew's Wedding at Raleigh Union Station

Jamie and Drew’s mountain engagement was just the beginning for these sweet babes. The flowers Jamie used at their adorable session in West Jefferson as well as all the flowers for the big day were hand made by their sister -n-law Emily! SO unique! I highly recommend!! (Link at bottom)

What a weekend!! When I say this couple has made an impact on their community…

I mean the outpouring who showed up to celebrate them represented folks from all walks. I mean they hired myself and all their vendors specifically because we are LGBTQ+ allies, simply to make sure each and every guest felt welcomed and supported while attending their events.

I mean they were sure to include each and every child among their friends through a fun learning day before the wedding instead of a rehearsal. (think physics experiments, a train photo booth, balloon games and a mini ceremony just for the kids!)

The way their friends and family gushed over them through speeches and side conversations, through selfies and compliments was overwhelming. They are truly adored by everyone they know, as they should be. Both incredibly kind and genuine. I couldn’t think of anyone more deserving of the other, than each other.

Fun fact: Drew wore the same suit he wore the day they met. (Jamie was obviously a fan) ;)

They chose to begin the wedding day with cocktail hour so they could greet their guests and casually blend into the ceremony when the timing felt right.

Vicki flipped a coin to see who would recite their vows first (Drew) and they exited the stage right into their first dance. Their guests went wild of course.

We could NOT have been more extatic to find the rain had finally stopped the moment they completed their dance so we rushed outside and captured tons of fun Just Married moments. And while the rain wasn’t fun for set up and tear down, it did not dampen one single moment of the day. Raleigh Union Station has so many incredible backdrops for photo ops, the weather is nearly irrelevant.

Their table decor consised of every travel item they own as well as every letter written to each other while dating. Most from various states as Jamie biked across the country. Additionally they entertained their guests with swing dancing lessons, a penny press and plenty of photo ops!

After the sun had set, we chose to play around with the unique spaces inside Raleigh Union Station. Between the various backdrops and unique lighting, we were not disappointed. It was quite the day and I would do it again anytime! Thank you so much for trusting me with your memories Jamie and Drew!! Love you both!!

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Guillermo Delgado

Coordinator: Kathryne with Harmony Weddings & Events

Venue : Raleigh Union Station

Dress: Unique Vintage

Shoes: Sofft Shoes

Rings: Rough Diamonds

Hair: Jen Mize at Salon Lofts

Florist: Emily Shoemaker at Bolt to Bloom

Officiant: Vicki Yannayon

DJ: Craig Sopo

Video: Matthew Rizzo

Catering: Lara Kelleher at Under the Oak Catering

Cake: Leann Gilliam and Brian Cordileone at Craft Public House

Rentals: Curated Events

Day Before Shindig: Pullen Park

Emma and Christian's Wedding at The Barn on New River

I met Emma and Christian last year at the Married in the Mountains showcase at The Barn on New River and we hit it off right away. I could tell by they way they teased each other and were relaxed about the wedding details we’d be a great fit. They were excited about how they met through a common love of White Chocolate Raspberry Cheesecake and couldn’t wait to gift honey jars to their guests becase they met on Bumble.

They chose not to have a first look with each other, but Emma did have a sweet first look with her dad and her bridesmaids before the ceremony while Christian poured bourbon for his fellas and helped wrangle the littles.

The Barn has a magnificent flower garden for portraits and we were so excited to utilize it before the reception started. Not to mention the ice cream cookie sandwiches from Blue Deer. ;)

The four by four ride to the top of the mountain for sunset photos is a highlight for every couple .Not just for the beauty of the photos, but for the chance to savor the day together. As much as you love each and every guest, no one compares to the one the day was created for to begin with. It was so sweet watching them play around together and talk about how the day had played out. When the Mustang arrived to pick them up, we had to create a few fun memories! Let’s do it again soon you guys!

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Aja White

Venue : The Barn on New River

Coordinator: Caroline with The Barn on New River

Dress: Justin Alexander Signature

Suit Designer: Kenneth Cole at Men’s Warehouse

Rings: Diamond’s Direct

Hair: Jill at Shine Hair Lounge

Florist: New River Escape

Officiant: Richard Tidyman

Live Music: Mountain Peak Sound

DJ: Mountain Peak Sound

Catering: The Scarlet Hen

Bartending : Vintage Pours

Dessert: Blue Deer

Rentals: A&J Rentals

Mindy and Oliver's Wedding at Appalachian View

I had so much fun getting to know these two cuties as we ventured around Charlotte for their engagement session. We started at Wooden Robot Brewery, where it all started for them, and casually strolled around to some of the popular spots like the Hearts Wall and anywhere we could squeeze in the Charlotte City Scape.

Fast forward to the wedding weekend, I joined them for a group hike with all their friends and family along the Tanawa Trail off the Blue Ridge Parkway. It was such a fun way for all their guests to get to know each other before the big day, I highly recommend for all my adventurous babes!

For the rehearsal dinner Mindy wore her grandmother/mother’s wedding gown which she had modernized, so we made sure to create a few portraits with it the morning of the wedding. With the remaining lace from the dress she made a brooch for her mother and pocket squares for her brother and dad. Her mother also hand painted all the wedding invitations and she wore her grandmother’s bracelet.

For their wedding party they wanted only the best dogs they knew, Lexie and Frankie, who of course had joined us on the big hike the day before as well. They were certainly a crowd favorite :)

At the reception they incorporated teal glass insulators and money tree seed pods onto the table design. These were to honor her grandfather who was a line man electrician and also loved money trees. He had collected them both through the years and they were perfect for the reception tables.

In addition to their other fun reception festivities, they chose to do an Hora Loca with their friends and family. “The Crazy Hour” it is essentially a party within a party and everyone had a blast. Fun lights and hats and masks, it definitely adds another element to the day.

You guys we had SO much fun celebrating with you! Let’s do it again soon!

The vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Jessse Roberts

Coordinator: Megan at Elegant Events

Venue : Appalachian View

Dress: Jenny Yoo from J Majors Bridal in Charlotte

Rings: Custom Jewelry Lab

Hair: Mirror Bomb

Make Up: A Little Bit of Powder

Florist: Bouquet Florist

Officiant: Nicolette Filson and Christopher Cleboski

Live Music and DJ: Mountain Peak Sound

Video: Nathan Chesky

Catering and Bartending: Gadabouts Catering

Cake: Elizabeth Cole

Rentals: Festive Elk

Beer Trailer: Happy Trailers

Katherine and Rob's Wedding at Sky Retreat

“Actually, the best gift you could have given her was a lifetime full of adventures ”

— Lewis Carroll #aliceinwonderland

When Katherine first messaged me, she said she found me through various instagram tags, and my work stood out as bright and colorful. I immediately knew we’d get along great because bright, bold colors are my favorite….and THEN she said their wedding date was my birthday! June 10th! What more could you ask for?!? I knew we were going to have way too much fun!

She and Rob were connected to both Raleigh and Boone, like me, so we decided to capture their engagement session in Raleigh since their wedding would be at Sky Retreat, one of my favorite Boone Venues. The JC Raulston Arboretum was sure to have plenty of color and I knew it would fit with with their adventurous side.

Fast forward to their big day! We had actually had multiple chats before hand as they navigated various mountain vendors and I was so excited to work with such an incredible team. Most of my couples resonate with my style in one way or another, but I swear Katherine and I could be the same person.

As her friends and family described her adventurous way, they also spoke of her excitement for life and great big feels. She was not shy with her tears, hugs or celebratory cheers! Further they described Rob’s perfect compliment to her personality through grounding; he balances her without holding her back. He might seem shy at first, but he was so comfortable in her presence, he was happy to share a cheers or a cigar, twirl her on the floor, surprise her with a dip and run through the sparklers twice!

You could simply feel the energy between them all day. They were both a big ball of nerves until the moment they saw each other and everything else fell away. When they finally had to chance to really embrace and share a moment together after the ceremony, she melted right into him and you could tell she was home.

I would celebrate with you two every weekend if I could! Thank you for including me in your big day! It was the happiest of birthdays!

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Jesse Roberts

Venue: Sky Retreat

Coordinator: Katie Brooks Event Co

Dress: Maggie Soterro - Artimus dress from Simply Blush Bridal

Suit: The Black Tux

Rings: Raleigh Diamond

Hair: Brittany Pruitt

Make Up: April Bennett

Live Painter: Abby Lynne Artist

Arch Florist: Bouquet Florist

Bouquets: Something Borrowed Blooms

Officiant: Megan Roberts

DJ: Welter Entertainment

Catering: Casa Rustica Catering

Cake: Hallmark Cakes

Rentals: The Festive Elk

Bar: Bartenders Plus CLT

Priya and Trevor's Indian-American Wedding at Brown Mountain Beach Resort

“In the flush of love’s light
We dare be brave
And suddenly we see
That love costs all we are
And will ever be.
Yet it is only love which sets us free”

— Dr. Maya Angelou

Who wouldn’t love the opportunity to wear three different gorgeous outfits at their happy wedding celebration?!? Anyone who knows my photography style, knows I LOVE bold colors and Indian ceremonies are notorious for their incredible colors. I was SO excited when Priya messaged to say my colors would show off their day best. She also wanted a team of “female boss babe vendors” because she knew we would get *ish done! Obviously I loved her immediately!

From the beginning we knew the timeline would be a little complicated with two ceremonies in one day but it was super fun exploring the options and the various ways Brown Mountain Beach could accommodate what they were looking for.

Her family was coming in from India and his mostly from Texas but because they currently live in NC, they wanted to highlight the beauty of our lovely state. She wanted mountains and he wanted the beach. They could not have chosen a better venue.

After the rehearsal Monday evening, everyone was delighted to celebrate with dancing at their Sangeet. For those unfamiliar with the term, the word “Sangeet “ means  music, or in this case, Music Night or Musical party. This musical night is a celebration of the union of not only the couple but the bonding of both families. It is here that both sides bring down their barriers and mingle in a fun environment. Everyone had so much fun!

Tuesday morning preparations finished with a first look between Priya and her sweet parents before she met her groom at the aisle. They exchanged a few sweet moments, raved over her dress and wished her many blessings.

Seriously though… this dress. You guys. Can all my future weddings PLEASE have this many colors!! I am obsessed!

They were adamant that this ceremony represent who they are as a couple, and not the typical patriarchal traditions that typically come with wedding ceremonies. They wrote most of the bi-lingual service themselves, incorporating a few traditions they loved and creating new ones at the same time. It was a beautiful testament to their strength as individuals and as a newly bonded couple.

With the first ceremony in the books, everyone took a lunch break then changed outfits for the American ceremony. Trevor and Priya shared a first look this time and after solidifying their vows a second time, had fun with their wedding party and relaxed for the rest of the evening, full to the brim with the love of their blended families.

It was an absolute honor to be included in your big day you guys!! Let’s do it again soon! ;)

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Ashley Warren

Venue: Brown Mountain Beach Resort

Coordinator: Hillary with BMB

Indian Sari was flown over with Priya’s mother direct from their home town.

American Dress: New York Bride and Groom

Rings: James Allen

Hair and Make Up: Shipra Ajmera

Florist: Edgemont garden

DJ: Spin Fire Entertainment

Video: Breel Productions

Taylor and Josh's Wedding at Ashton Gardens

“You know you’re in love when you can’t fall asleep because reality is finally better than your dreams.”

— Dr. Seuss

I feel like I’ve known this sweet family my whole life at this point, but I suppose the photography element began a couple years ago at Lauren and Brady’s wedding in Georgia. There I had stayed in the big house with the family while capturing all the things through the weekend and I met Brianna! Bri and I hit it off right away of course, and she wanted me to come out to Colorado the following year to capture her and Niko’s wedding! Yes please!

\While staying with the fam through the festivities and carpooling back and forth through the various Colorado events, I had several long chats with Josh and Taylor who weren’t engaged *yet, but I quickly became privy to the exciting Disney proposal that was to soon follow! I was so excited when they messaged with the official good news and asked me to come back to Georgia for their big day!

Ashton Gardens was the perfect venue for these two. With most activities indoors it allowed for sweltering Georgia heat, or rain… and since we had more than enough of the latter, everyone was thrilled to be indoors. The venue has a gorgeous ceremony space and an incredible entrance staircase to the reception so we were sure to utilize every square inch.

During the rehearsal Taylor received a special gift of photos of her late grandparents and it was so special to see her tie them to her bouquet in order to have them by her side all day. That along with the special bracelets from her mom and sisters perfected her incredible gown.

The fellas, of course, had a fun morning between the barber, the Jack and their matching sunglasses, while the ladies sipped mimosas and raved over the bouquets that matched each of their unique dresses. Taylor chose to do a first look with the dads and groomsmen so by the time the ceremony started, Josh was the only person in the party who hadn’t seen his lovely bride and the anticipation was building fast! He could not have been more pleased of course!

After the tears began during the ceremony, they made several comebacks throughout the night as they both are close to their families and the parent dances had everyone crying (including me!) That, coupled with the heartfelt toasts from their siblings, we were all filled to the brim with joy for these two sweet souls.

Thank you so much for including me you guys! You are both so very kind and wonderful together. I am honored to know you and cannot wait to see what else is in the future!

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Venue/Coordination/Catering/DJ : Ashton Gardens Atlanta, Georgia

Dress: David’s Bridal

Suit: Men’s Warehouse

Rings: Kay Jewelers and Manly Bands

Hair and Make Up: Nicolle Silva

Officiant: Derek Cook, Brother in Law - but script written by Lhegendary Weddings

Cake: Bohemian Bakery

Sarah and Matt's Wedding at Weaver House

“Tale as old as time. True as it can be. Barely even friends, then somebody bends unexpectedly”

— Beauty and the Beast

I loved listening to Matt and Sarah’s friends reminisce about this love story built on friendship. How they were hanging out again, but were only “friends.” How they were meeting each others’ families, but were only “friends.” How everyone should come to this fun party at Weaver House this weekend because somehow friends became more than friends and they’re ready to celebrate!

And there isn’t a crew out there who was more excited than these guys! Armed with all the best college, family and work stories, white claws and good vibes, everyone showed up and helped Sarah and Matt celebrate in style!

Sarah is a huge Disney Fan (peep her Cinderella Shoes!) and Matthew is a Star Wars fanatic, so naturally they appreciate each others’ excitement. They spent a mini-moon in Asheville prior to venturing down to Orlando for a few days to enjoy their 'happy place' at the most magical place on earth and I cannot wait to hear all about it!

I could tell right away both their families already loved each other. From all the hugs at the rehearsal to the moms choosing to walk each other in the ceremony to the newly formed secret hand shake from both their dads at the reception, they were already family and just there to celebrate!

My goodness, I could not have chosen a better wedding to end out the season! I haven’t known Sarah long, but we only needed five minutes to become instant besties. Then I got to stay with her night before the wedding and we rocked an absolute total girls night shenanigan fest with Wedding Crashers, white claws and life stories followed by calming yoga before the big day began. We had so much fun! I would not have missed this day for anything! Thank you so much for inviting me into your incredible family you guys! Love you so much!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Venue and Catering : Weaver House

Coordinator: Alexandria from Weaver House

Dress: Vow'd Weddings

Suit: Men’s Warehouse

Rings: A. Jaffe

Hair and Make Up: Brushes and Braids

Florist: All the Pretty Flowers

Officiant: Megan Roberts

Ceremony Music: Appalachian String Duo

Reception Band: Blaze the City

Shelby and Brandon's Wedding at ZincHouse Winery

It is so surreal when the teens I worked with over a decade ago who became senior photo sessions in my early years as a photographer eventually come full circle to inviting me to celebrate with them on their best day ever! I have known and loved Brandon’s family for ages it seems, and my heart leaped for joy when he called to tell me he had found the one! We jumped straight to proposal planning, engagement session and potentially backyard wedding prep as he and Shelby tried to determine if they’d like to own a wedding venue themselves. After walking the land together it became clear it’d be a little too stressful to get everything prepped for their big day, but I’m so excited to see how it comes to fruition for them in the future!

They were a dream to work with on their engagement session on the parkway, getting up before sunrise to hike Rough Ridge for the golden hour glow. We had so much fun catching up and I knew the big day was going to be a blast!

Shelby and Brandon discovered a new venue in Raleigh still setting everything up to host weddings and they were excited to help them figure things out for their big day since owning a venue is a dream of theirs for the future. They were not disappointed, ZincHouse had everything ready just in time and made sure every aspect of their day was flawless.

They chose to do a private first look so they could share their personal vows to each other. We were all a mushy mess after that but it was totally worth it. These two love each other with all their hearts and it was so precious to watch them share this moment.

Of course the rest of their day with all their closest friends and family was super fun and life giving to all involved. They are dearly loved by their families and their collective bond runs deep.

It was such an honor to be a part of your day Brandon and Shelby! Thank you so much for including me! Love you both!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Cinda Williams

Venue : ZincHouse Winery

Dress: Essense of Australia from Carolina Bridal World Triangle

Suit: ECE Mensware

Rings: Verragio from Diamonds Direct

Hair and Make Up: Tease + Blush

Florist: Dave Duty

Officiants: Ron Klabunde & Matt Jones

DJ: Elite DJ Solutions

Video: Lucas Studios NC

Catering: Catering by Design

Brooke and Kayla's Wedding at Overlook Barn

“Too much of a good thing can be wonderful”

— Mae West

Rainbow everything! Donuts, shoes, purses, flags and explosives! Give me alllll the color!

I have had the pleasure of getting to know these two babes over the past year with two different surprise proposals and have been anticipating this happy day from the beginning! That excitement amplified tenfold when I walked into Overlook Barn and Megan, the coordinator handed me a box labeled ‘explosives’ that she was instructed to “give to Cynthia, she’ll know what to do.” Bring it on.

I started reading the instructions and these simple "smoke bombs” made it seem like we were about to go to war. We apparently needed gloves, face masks, fire extinguishers and the fire department on stand by just in case. Luckily we had just that! Half the fire department was, in fact, in attendance as guests and we had a whole crew of vendors and wedding party at the ready to make this magic happen. I don’t think one single person was upset about it. ;)

Que the tears! Little Dexter has been a part of their journey together from the beginning and always wants to be included when rings or other gifts are being exchanged. So they gave him a promise ring to wear around his neck during the ceremony and promised to raise him with all the love they possess. The entire crowd began weeping of course. These three are surrounded by love on all sides and you could feel it as they greeted each guest and relived all their happy memories together.

We originally planned to sneak them out of the reception after all the “important” moments like the first dance and cake cutting to do these smoke bomb photos. Brooke and Kayla knew these colorful bombs might not go as planned and their beautiful white attire might not be white afterwards. However I realized the sun was “setting” earlier behind the mountain than we anticipated and we needed to squeeze in this moment before they started the reception so we could get that incredible glowy sunset light. They didn’t pause for a second, they just said they trusted me, grabbed their flag and we went for it! These are now possibly my favorite photos ever! So grateful for the whole wedding party and The Elegant Event and Overlook Barn crew who jumped at the chance to make these rainbow dreams come true!

I would not have missed this day for the world! Thank you so much for including us!! Love you guys!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Megan Drake at The Elegant Event

Venue : Overlook Barn

Dress - Madi Lane from One Bridal

Make Up: Sharla Bance

Hair: Allie Oliver with Battle Born Beauty

Florist: Bouquet Florist Boone

Attire: One Bridal and White House Black Market

Officiant: Rev. Dr. Gregory Possman High Country Ministers

Live Music: Hope Griffin

DJ: Chad at Millennium Entertainment

Video: Trent at TW Productions

Catering: The Smoke Pit

Cake: Sassy Cat Bakery and Local Lion

Rentals- Dinnerware/cups/sweetheart table: Miss Match Rentals

Arbor: The Summit Woodworks

Beer Trailer: Happy Trailers

Rachel and Stephen's Wedding at The Oaks at Salem

I’m not sure I’ve ever met a kinder or more endearing couple than Rachel and Stephen. I already loved them from their engagement session on the Blue Ridge Parkway, at Flat Rock Overlook. They both had the sweetest demeanor toward each other. Both mentioning several times how awkward they were sure to be in front of the camera, and of course being anything but. Totally natural together and comfortable in each others’ arms. They needed nothing else to make the shoot a success.

Fast forward to their wedding weekend in Apex at the beautiful Oaks at Salem. Everyone was bracing for the hurricane winds and rain only to be pleasantly surprised by a beautifully mild day. They were even able to keep their ceremony on the lawn! (With a few back up umbrellas just in case) :)

I loved how they described how they met on their wedding website: “Stephen was sitting at home feeling blue and cabin-fevery because the sure-to-be-shortlived COVID pandemic caused him to cancel his vacation plans. During a text chat with Rachel, he half-jokingly invited her to come over and watch this crazy Netflix show called Tiger King, certain that she'd say no. But to his surprise, she said Sure! It was an awkward hangout, followed by a couple more awkward hangouts, and then they realized they're just awkward in general”

How adorable are these two?!? I could feel the anxiousness building all morning, the power had gone out putting us all a little behind schedule, but the moment they saw each other during the first look, they practically melted into each others’ arms and the rest of the day was a breeze.

I am so grateful for kind and wonderful couples like these two. The love of the whole family permeates the day and it is such a joy to celebrate with them.

You guys thank you so much for including us on your happy day!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Venue: The Oaks at Salem

Coordinator: Southern Skies Events

Dress: Larisa Samarskaya at Larisa Style

Suit: Mens Warehouse

Rings: Hollands Jewelers

Hair and Make Up: Elaine Harrison

Florist: MEWS Floral Design

Officiant: Dawn Brinson

Music: Jenny's Music Studio,

Video: Steve Creel

Bartending: Brew Masters

Catering: Ford's Fluent N' Food

Cake: Ambrosia Cake Creations

Rentals: Party Reflections

Lara and Ben's Wedding at Westglow Resort

“Love her, but leave her wild”

— Atticus

Oh my goodness what a day! I didn’t get to meet Lara and Ben in person until the wedding weekend which always makes me a little nervous. It’s so nice walking into the wedding day knowing exactly how the couple interacts in front of the camera and how our personalities vibe. But with these two, you would have never known! Big hugs right away and I could tell it was going to be one hell of a party!

Their 24 person crew rolled into the rehearsal looking fabulous, cracking jokes, full of smiles and ready to dance! It was completely irrelevant that a hurricane was brewing outside and everyone knew they would be soaked by the end of the day. They were there to support their favorite couple no matter what! I knew I’d fit right in. ;)

Then there’s Westglow Resort! Wow! I haven’t had a chance to shoot here yet and I was not disappointed. The getting ready spaces in the mansion were filled with beautiful natural light and we had plenty of indoor options for portraits while it was rainy and cold.

Lara wore her grandmother’s gorgeous veil which has been passed through the family in 14 different weddings. Such a beautiful heirloom.

These two babes were not interested in too many official portraits, they just wanted to get to the party! We made a quick stop downtown to stop traffic for a photo, snagged a few when they arrived at the venue then let the shenanigans begin!

These guys had soooo much fun and there couldn’t have been one guest in attendance who didn’t end up on the dance floor at some point! The high winds made a sparkler exit impossible, so their crew whipped out their iphone flashlights and not one memory was lost!

We have to hang out again soon you guys! Thank you so much for inviting us to be a part of your day!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Jesse Roberts

Coordinator: Megan at The Elegant Event

Ceremony: First Baptist Church of Blowing Rock

Venue : Westglow Resort and Spa

Dress: Essence Designs of Australia

Suit: Men’s Warehouse

Rings: Engagement ring from Ben’s Mother, Wedding Bands: Diamond’s Direct

Hair and Make Up: Shear Shakti

Florist: Thistle & Twigs Flowers

Officiant: Mike Mckee

Band: Diamond River Band from East Coast Entertainment

Catering: Earthworks Catering

Cake: Wendy Shanahan

Get Away Car: Air Haven Limo

Rentals: Classic Event Rentals

Rehearsal Dinner: Blowing Rock Country Club

Nikki and Jake's Wedding at Eagle’s Nest

I had the wonderful and unexpected opportunity to meet two incredible families at a pool party this summer while hanging out with Anthony’s family. In between cocktails, chats about clean eating and photos of bear cubs they discovered I was a wedding photographer, and I discovered they were in need of one…soon…like in 3 months!

Nikki and I started chatting all things details and as soon as she mentioned her date my excitement turned to dismay! With a dozen weddings already booked in September/October, I just knew I would be unavailable for their date…until she mentioned it’d be on a Thursday! Queue the dance party! I knew 4 weddings in an 8 day period would be pushing it, even for me, but I couldn’t let this sweet new friend down. We got right to work!

We weren’t able to squeeze in an engagement session before the big day, but I wasn’t worried, the way Nikki and Jake flirted at the party and spoke about each other told me everything I needed to know. Head over heels for each other and absolutely committed to each others’ families.

And let me tell you, oh my goodness, the way Jake lit up when he saw Nikki at the first look and then RAN to grab her was my favorite part of the day! He nearly tackled her to the floor in his excitement but I guarantee she would not have minded. As the stress builds on every wedding morning with various details falling apart or changing, it is always a delight to watch the weight completely dissolve as the couple hug each other for the first time. They realize instantly every anxious detail is unimportant compared to joy their other half brings.

While I’ve captured dozens of Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations, I’ve never had the honor of witnessing a Jewish Wedding Celebration. Complete with Chuppah, Ketubah, the bride’s circling of the groom and the groom’s breaking of the glass! It’s always so fun to learn new traditions.

With the hurricane threatening to wreak havoc on the High Country with heavy winds and rain all weekend, we were all nervous about the various outdoor elements of the day. However, as the forecast announced the storm had pushed back another day or so, the relief was palpable. The day began to embody a sense of astonishment and awe. Not only did the rains hold back, the blue skies were endless and the views at Eagles Nest, breathtaking.

As the evening came to a close, every face exuded an expression joy, gratitude, and above all, love. You guys thank you so much for including us in your special day!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Jesse Roberts

Coordinator: Megan at The Elegant Event

Venue : Eagle’s Nest

Dress: Giambattista Valli

Veil: Vera Wang

Hair and Make Up: Caiti at Canvas Beauty Bar

Florist: Fuschia Moss Floral

Officiant: Rabbi Loring J. Frank

Ceremony Musicians: Dean’s Duets

Band: Cassette Rewind

Photobooth: Boone Photobooth

Catering: Reid’s Catering

Cake: Choice Cakes

Rentals: Parties Too and Classic Event Rentals

Dessert: Beth Westfall Chocolates

Shuttles: Air Haven Limo

Ashe and Justin's Wedding at The Inn at Crestwood

I had the best time getting to know Justin and Ashe at their engagement session at Moses Cone last year. We hit it off right away of course; they are so down to earth and easy to be around. They had no expectations, they just wanted to capture this moment in the exact weather of the mountains. Their proposal was in a thick fog and they loved every minute of it. They hoped their engagement session and wedding day would each be something different to capture the mountains in their entirety. They were not disappointed.

These two met just before covid and found that the world’s shut down only brought them closer together as their dates looked more like long talks on the porch or walks in the park rather than watching a movie. She bought a puppy together they trained little Benson, and that too only brought them closer.

In their sweet ceremony at St Elizabeth’s Church, they shared their first communion together, as well as a their first prayer to Mary as a united couple. After that they had scheduled a two hour break before the cocktail hour began so they were able to enjoy their day together privately before entertaining their guests.

Back at Crestwood, Emerald Empire band brought the party and everyone danced the night away with the chill of fall beginning to settle in around them. It was a perfect day!

You guys thank you so much for including us in your special day!!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Shannon Leopold

Ceremony: St. Elizabeth’s Catholic Church

Reception Venue: The Inn at Crestwood

Dress: Sealed With A Kiss

Rings: Paffrath Jewelers

Make Up: April Bennett

Florist: Callista Flower Company

Officiant: Deacon Larry O'Toole

Band: Emerald Empire Band

Delina and Mike's Wedding at Overlook Barn

Oh my goodness, I had so much fun learning how Delina and Mike fell in love on a motorcycle trip across England, France, and Belgium. Their love of adventure made them an absolute dream couple for me! For their engagement session they brought their bike and we cruised around the parkway stopping at favorite hiking spots and making sure to capture their love of both each other and the type of adventure that brought them together in the first place.

For their honeymoon they’re taking an epic road trip across the US then hopping over to Hawaii to hike to waterfalls and get scuba certified. I must say, I’m super jealous and totally tempted to stalk behind them the whole way so I can capture every moment I love it so much!

We had a major threat of rain all day but we were all so happy it held off allowing everyone to see the beautiful mountain backdrop at Overlook Barn.

Delina chose to do a first look with her grandmother as well as Mike…and let’s just say the whole room was in tears. Just look how precious they are together.

Mike and Delina have fostered 8 dogs and over 20 kittens too young, injured or sick to stay in the shelter and that too, helped bond them early in their relationship. They're happy to report that all are living happily in their forever homes now. And they made sure to include their pups at the wedding for 15 min for a super important photo op.

Delina of course wore a gorgeous gown for most of the day, but wanted to be sure to honor her grandmother by also wearing her wedding dress for part of the reception. It was restored by Dorian at Poinsett Bride and fit her perfectly.

Between the dancing, s’mores, late night popcorn, sparklers and perfect weather, the evening was a huge success and our happy couple left feeling loved and adored.

Thank you guys for inviting us to be a part of your day!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Jesse Roberts

Coordinator: Johna O'Leary, Maready & Co. Events

Venue : Overlook Barn

Dress: Poinsett Bride

Suit: Hugo Boss

Rings: llyn Strong

Hair and Make Up: Bella Bridal Artistry

Florist: Thistle and Twig

Officiant: Seth Bickley

Ceremony Music: Summit Strings

DJ: Split Second Sound

Video: Honeydew Films

Photobooth: CLT Shutter Booth

Catering: Earthworks

Bartending: Black Moth Bars

Cake: Stick Boy

Rentals: Professional Party Rentals

Ashley and Phil's Wedding at The Maxwell

I’m not sure where to even begin with these gorgeous babes! We met at United Fitness Crossfit a few years ago and as I traveled back and forth to Raleigh from Boone I would always drop in and work out with them and the rest of the crew, and take photos for the gym. It has always been a second home for me. I was ecstatic when Phil told me he was ready to begin scheming his proposal to Ashley. We had discussed something in the mountains first, but it ended up working better to capture that moment in Raleigh, then do the official engagement session in the mountains later… and well, as you can see… excellent choice. :)

Fast forward to the big day. They chose one of Raleigh’s newest wedding venues, The Maxwell, and I must say, I absolutely adore it! Very open and bright, easily transitions both indoor or out with the weather and it’s neutral colors accommodate any wedding design.

They shared a very sweet first look right on the ceremony aisle followed by their own personal vows to each other. They reminisced how it was an unlikely fit in the beginning due to their differences, but found gratitude in how those differences helped them balance one another and promised to continue to growing in ways that would compliment the other.

Ashley had family flying in from Malaysia (as well as several back home watching via live feed). She wanted to have a proper tea ceremony symbolizing the union of two families, while celebrating her Chinese heritage and introducing Phil’s family as well. I was honored to witness it; I love learning how other cultures celebrate the beginning of their new life together.

It begins with the couple honoring their elders on both sides by serving tea, then they exchange blessings and gratitudes as well as special gifts. Next the younger siblings and cousins of the couple then take their turn to honor the couple, as their elders, in the same way.

The love between the two families was palpable in this moment as they each shared gratitude, not only for the couple, but each other. Lots of laughter and tears, hugs and tea :)

Oh my goodness you two!! Thank you so much for inviting me on this journey with you!! I cannot wait to see all that is to follow! (If you ever need me to join you in Malaysia, I could make that happen… just sayin) ;)

Love you both!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Mandy with Timeless Love NC

Venue : The Maxwell

Dress: Dentelle Bridal from Malaysia

Suit: Men's Warehouse

Hair and Make Up: Pinup bridal

Florist: Teacup Florals

Officiant: Adam Davenport

DJ: Yes Raleigh

Catering: Cateringworks

Rentals: Party Reflections

Talia and Robbie's Wedding at Beech Mountain Club

“And there are those that show up in your life so unexpectedly and with gentleness, patience, love and sincerity - change the course of your life”

— Vansana Nolintha

This week shattered me.

When I say I love my job, I mean it with my whole heart.

I adore getting to go to dance parties every weekend and celebrate with new friends, old friends, forever friends and every vendor who loves their job as much as I do.

I love the adventure of traveling to new cities and new venues. I love the psychology of meeting new couples and seeing how their families fit together.

I love when they don’t realize I caught that stolen kiss from the flower girl that made them beam with laughter or that quick pep talk from grandpa that calmed their nerves just in time.

I love that I still get teary-eyed when a daddy’s girl takes her hero by the hand to walk down that sacred aisle or when the couple realizes their best day ever just ended and they just look at each other for a minute…absolutely overcome with joy from the outpouring of love their friends and family just bestowed upon them.

I love that part of my job.

And as much as I love it, it can still be easy to slip into “work mode” when I overbook myself and get 4 hours of sleep in between two back to back 14 hour weddings that are a 3 hour drive away from each other. With lack of sleep, it can be easy to feel annoyance at the little things that make a wedding day more challenging or go on auto-pilot when it comes to photoshop sessions that bleed into the morning hours.

But Lord have mercy, this was one of those weddings that will fuel my passion for this life for years to come.

If you’ve been around this past week you already know… but if you haven’t brace yourself.

“Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage”

— Lao Tzu

Talia asked me to meet them at the hospital 10 days before the wedding to capture a quick ceremony. She didn’t think her dad would be strong enough to make it to their mountain top wedding and she wanted to honor him by coming to his room and letting him see first hand that she said her “I dos” and made it official.

Complete with officiant, rings, paperwork and flowers we filled his tiny hospital room with all the love we could give and the newest Mr. and Mrs. could rest, knowing dad didn’t miss a thing and the party would still go on the next weekend.

What we did not expect was her father, at peace with the love of his family, would go to heaven quietly that very night.

If ever in my life photos ever mattered. It was this moment.

I am absolutely overcome with the gravity of this “profession.”

Of course, every memory captured in time is meaningful. Every chance we get to recall a moment that made us feel the power of love is important.

But to know that you made the right choice to honor your father, even when it was hard, even when it meant you wouldn’t get the “fairytale” wedding - that is a core memory that will not only empower our beautiful couple, but will inspire countless others for the rest of time.

My words fail me now. There is only gratitude. For Talia and Robbie. For this profession. For this incredible community who rallied around them when they needed it most. For breath in my lungs to do it again tomorrow with a renewed sense of passion. For every single couple and family who has trusted me thus far. I owe you everything.

However, I know Talia wouldn’t want us to dwell in the sadness for too long. She’ll be grateful we showed up, and she’ll insist we move on to happier thoughts. So without further ado…

The “second” wedding:

It absolutely down-poured all morning. But not one well-wisher who apologized to Talia for the crummy weather could bring down her spirit. She just brushed them off with, “don’t apologize, it’s perfect.”

They chose not to do a second ceremony because they could never recreate something more perfect than the first…and they didn’t particularly want to deal with all the other “official” things like dances and cakes anyway, so they just spent the weekend enjoying their friends and family, each other, and the gift of their new life together.

Talia warned me she had a big surprise at the end of the night for Robbie (and everyone). So of course I set up my lights and got ready for the 2-3 fireworks that occasionally accompany a wedding. But none of us could have expected the Fairground style - Independence Day-sized spectacle she pulled off that night! Robbie was stunned, the guests went wild and everyone raved for days about the best ending to any wedding EVER.

You guys I cannot thank you enough for trusting me with this incredible moment in history. I adore you and cannot wait to crash your next house party!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Elizabeth Hempfling

Venue and Catering: Beech Mountain Club

Hair: Jezabel with Mane Habit Salon

Florist: Aster Breeze Designs

Officiant: Gil Adams

Bands: If Birds Could Fly and Winston Ramble

Photobooth: Boone Photo Booth

Rentals: A Bushel and a Peck and Parties Too

Amy and David's Wedding at The Lodge at Brier Creek

It’s not often I get to shoot a couple’s engagement session at the same location as their wedding, but The Lodge at Brier Creek is so beautiful, we all agreed it would be the perfect choice. I knew right away these two were going to be perfect to work with, they’re super fun and quirky and we literally already had everything we needed in first five minutes of shooting because they’re so natural. They came with their own ideas of what they wanted, different outfits and were willing to walk every square inch of the grounds.

Fast forward to their wedding weekend! Amy and David’s crew showed up ready to party and from the rehearsal to portraits to running away from giant lightening strikes to dance party entrances and dance party final exits, they provided just the right amount of hype and helped these two celebrate in style.

Fun fact about Amy and David. They are both entomologists and had met in an entomology class in college in Southern California. So it’s only fitting he proposed during a cicada explosion (I’m sure that’s the wrong term for it). He literally timed his wedding proposal around the cicada’s schedule and I think that is just the most adorable gesture to the field they both love. In addition she chose a dress to highlight her beautiful tattoos, wore insect earrings and had cicada fondant on their wedding cake.

She also held her Great-grandmother's handkerchief in her bouquet, which had been passed down through several family weddings.

Just before the ceremony started, the storm clouds rolled in and we were so glad we got the beautiful glowy engagement photos on the grounds previously (as well as their first look). However, the Lodge has a beautiful front porch overlooking the same mountains as their ceremony field and it worked perfectly as our covered option.

After the reception had started and everyone was having dinner, I noticed from the back room that the clouds parted and there was a perfect sunset. I knew we’d only have a couple minutes to capture it before the following cloud rolled back over so I ran from the back with cameras in hand, pointed at our happy couple- in the middle of dinner- they knew right away what they needed to do and they jumped up and followed me. The sun was out for just a couple minutes but it’s all we needed to capture that beautiful glow!

After tons of dancing with their friends and family we were about to close out the night and right on cue, we had a little visitor. ONLY an entomologist couple would notice a cricket on their dance floor, stop the show to pick it up and free it into the field nearby. It was the most adorable ending to their insect-friendly day.

You guys I cannot thank you enough for including me in your special day! I had the very best time and cannot wait to hear about all the cool bugs you discover in the future!

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Sydney Gail

Coordinator: Sincerely Chic

Venue : The Lodge on Brier Creek

Dress: Maggie Soterro from New York Bride and Groom of Raleigh

Suit: Suit Shop

Rings: Brilliant Earth and Emblem

Hair and Make Up: The Beauty Tribe

Florist: Brookside Flowers

Officiant: Sara Vesta/ Vestal Ceremonies

DJ: Tu-can Jamz Mobile Productions

Catering/Bar/Rentals: Catering by Tracy

Cake: Dewey's Bakery

Get Away Car: Elkin Vine Line