Sonia and Michael's Wedding at the Oaks at Salem

“Love is an endless mystery, for it has nothing else to explain it”

— Rabindranath Tagore

Michael and Sonia met at a Jazz Bar on Bourbon street. OR at an orthopedics conference where they were both presenting their work from graduate school. (depends on who you ask). After thriving through Covid together they knew this was real and we started planning all the things.

As Duke is near and dear to their hearts we captured their engagement between Sarah P. Duke Gardens and Duke Chapel. And all their wedding festivities were in and around Durham.

I initially met the rest of their family at the Mehndi ceremony at their home. It never ceases to overwhelm me as couples invite me into these sacred and life giving moments in their lives. Their families were already familiar with each other and blended easily as her family taught his, with great love, the meaning behind each moment.

A Mehndi is a way of wishing the couple health and prosperity as they make the next step into marriage but I love how it forces them to rely on the help of their friends and family to feed them, fix their hair, assist with potty breaks, shoe removal and communication. It forces them to slow down, not check their phone and simply be present with each other and their family while the henna dries.

I would love to see more of this for all my couples. Michael’s friends and family were certainly excited as they learned and experienced each new tradition.

As for their Haldi Ceremony, the celebrations continued and the familiarity with each others’ families grew. As each member gently and intentionally placed the turmeric and other spices on their bodies for wellness and good fortune, it quickly turned to a fun filled smearing of the yogurt and spices all over them to ensure the best wedding day “glow.” Everyone had a blast!

The wedding day welcomed more and more family and friends into the fold as they danced and laughed through each ritual and tradition. Michael and his crew had a blast celebrating his Baraat wedding entrance and her family greeted him with open arms.

Michael even included our very Southern tradition of burying the bourbon on the ceremony grounds and digging it up to ensure no rain on the wedding day. (it worked!) Both being proficient at ballroom dancing, they dazzled their guests during the reception and also tipped their hats to their NOLA beginnings and included a beignet truck instead of cake for their desserts!

You guys thank you so much for inviting us to be a part of your big weekend!

Instagram Handles for all the Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: @cynthiajviola with @jhaganphotog

Ceremony Venue: @oaksatsalem 

Reception Venue: @durhamcookery

Planning: @southernskiesevents

HMU: @weddedkiss

Henna: @hennaartbynadia and @mysticalhennabypriya

Florals: @beckettfloral

DJ: @dowoakevents

Catering: @limenlemon_indiangrill and @rocky_top_caters and @nukkad.usa

Bar: @withatwistbartendingservice

Dessert: @squaredoughnuts

Rentals: @curatedeventsraleigh, @americanpartyrentals and @greenhousepickersisters

Puppy Care: @barkandbonenc

Fashion: @Indochino and @bhldn

Rings: @emilychelseajewelry, @brilliantearth and @Thorum 

Officiant: Priya Amaresh

Haldi Venue: @achoteldurham

Alex and Daniel's Wedding at the Oaks at Salem

“Love does not consist of gazing at each other, but in looking together in the same direction”

— Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Where to begin with these two? I need to start with Toni and Kim as I met Alex’s parents first, and I must say, I absolutely fell in love with them and wanted to adopt them immediately. We got to hang out at the Oaks a couple times during the planning process including an adorable video chat with Alex (on the West Coast) and I knew we would all be friends for life. The way they cared for each other and cared about every detail along the way was incredibly sweet. It was no surprise when I met Daniel and his parents on the wedding day, I loved them instantly as well. Everyone was so invested in this sweet couple. From running errands, to making sure they had drinks and getting hyped over chants and cheers for photos!

Thennnn came the first looks. I could barely see to keep shooting. Mom made sure she had each borrowed and blue item while Dad wiped her tears. Daniel left her speechless and then they were ready to party.

This crew did not disappoint. If I didn’t know any better I’d say every single one of them was a paid professional hype man. They brought all the excitement to the day and made sure these babes were overwhelmed with love. (not to mention SIX heartfelt speeches during dinner!)

What an incredible weekend Alex and Daniel!! Thank you so much for including me!! It was an honor to witness your love and vast friendships. You have an amazing group surrounding you.

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Christina Perkins

Venue : The Oaks at Salem

Dress: Martina Liana at Coastal Knot

Rings: Derco Diamonds

Hair: Mena Garcia Beauty

Make Up: Mena Garcia Beauty

Florist: Meristem Floral

Officiant: Kevin Grant

Live Music: Udeshi Hargett Violinist

DJ: All Events DJs

Video: Thomas Blake Films

Catering: Catering By Design

Rentals: Curated Events

Jamie and Drew's Wedding at Raleigh Union Station

Jamie and Drew’s mountain engagement was just the beginning for these sweet babes. The flowers Jamie used at their adorable session in West Jefferson as well as all the flowers for the big day were hand made by their sister -n-law Emily! SO unique! I highly recommend!! (Link at bottom)

What a weekend!! When I say this couple has made an impact on their community…

I mean the outpouring who showed up to celebrate them represented folks from all walks. I mean they hired myself and all their vendors specifically because we are LGBTQ+ allies, simply to make sure each and every guest felt welcomed and supported while attending their events.

I mean they were sure to include each and every child among their friends through a fun learning day before the wedding instead of a rehearsal. (think physics experiments, a train photo booth, balloon games and a mini ceremony just for the kids!)

The way their friends and family gushed over them through speeches and side conversations, through selfies and compliments was overwhelming. They are truly adored by everyone they know, as they should be. Both incredibly kind and genuine. I couldn’t think of anyone more deserving of the other, than each other.

Fun fact: Drew wore the same suit he wore the day they met. (Jamie was obviously a fan) ;)

They chose to begin the wedding day with cocktail hour so they could greet their guests and casually blend into the ceremony when the timing felt right.

Vicki flipped a coin to see who would recite their vows first (Drew) and they exited the stage right into their first dance. Their guests went wild of course.

We could NOT have been more extatic to find the rain had finally stopped the moment they completed their dance so we rushed outside and captured tons of fun Just Married moments. And while the rain wasn’t fun for set up and tear down, it did not dampen one single moment of the day. Raleigh Union Station has so many incredible backdrops for photo ops, the weather is nearly irrelevant.

Their table decor consised of every travel item they own as well as every letter written to each other while dating. Most from various states as Jamie biked across the country. Additionally they entertained their guests with swing dancing lessons, a penny press and plenty of photo ops!

After the sun had set, we chose to play around with the unique spaces inside Raleigh Union Station. Between the various backdrops and unique lighting, we were not disappointed. It was quite the day and I would do it again anytime! Thank you so much for trusting me with your memories Jamie and Drew!! Love you both!!

The Wedding Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Guillermo Delgado

Coordinator: Kathryne with Harmony Weddings & Events

Venue : Raleigh Union Station

Dress: Unique Vintage

Shoes: Sofft Shoes

Rings: Rough Diamonds

Hair: Jen Mize at Salon Lofts

Florist: Emily Shoemaker at Bolt to Bloom

Officiant: Vicki Yannayon

DJ: Craig Sopo

Video: Matthew Rizzo

Catering: Lara Kelleher at Under the Oak Catering

Cake: Leann Gilliam and Brian Cordileone at Craft Public House

Rentals: Curated Events

Day Before Shindig: Pullen Park

Shelby and Brandon's Wedding at ZincHouse Winery

It is so surreal when the teens I worked with over a decade ago who became senior photo sessions in my early years as a photographer eventually come full circle to inviting me to celebrate with them on their best day ever! I have known and loved Brandon’s family for ages it seems, and my heart leaped for joy when he called to tell me he had found the one! We jumped straight to proposal planning, engagement session and potentially backyard wedding prep as he and Shelby tried to determine if they’d like to own a wedding venue themselves. After walking the land together it became clear it’d be a little too stressful to get everything prepped for their big day, but I’m so excited to see how it comes to fruition for them in the future!

They were a dream to work with on their engagement session on the parkway, getting up before sunrise to hike Rough Ridge for the golden hour glow. We had so much fun catching up and I knew the big day was going to be a blast!

Shelby and Brandon discovered a new venue in Raleigh still setting everything up to host weddings and they were excited to help them figure things out for their big day since owning a venue is a dream of theirs for the future. They were not disappointed, ZincHouse had everything ready just in time and made sure every aspect of their day was flawless.

They chose to do a private first look so they could share their personal vows to each other. We were all a mushy mess after that but it was totally worth it. These two love each other with all their hearts and it was so precious to watch them share this moment.

Of course the rest of their day with all their closest friends and family was super fun and life giving to all involved. They are dearly loved by their families and their collective bond runs deep.

It was such an honor to be a part of your day Brandon and Shelby! Thank you so much for including me! Love you both!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Cinda Williams

Venue : ZincHouse Winery

Dress: Essense of Australia from Carolina Bridal World Triangle

Suit: ECE Mensware

Rings: Verragio from Diamonds Direct

Hair and Make Up: Tease + Blush

Florist: Dave Duty

Officiants: Ron Klabunde & Matt Jones

DJ: Elite DJ Solutions

Video: Lucas Studios NC

Catering: Catering by Design

Ashley and Phil's Wedding at The Maxwell

I’m not sure where to even begin with these gorgeous babes! We met at United Fitness Crossfit a few years ago and as I traveled back and forth to Raleigh from Boone I would always drop in and work out with them and the rest of the crew, and take photos for the gym. It has always been a second home for me. I was ecstatic when Phil told me he was ready to begin scheming his proposal to Ashley. We had discussed something in the mountains first, but it ended up working better to capture that moment in Raleigh, then do the official engagement session in the mountains later… and well, as you can see… excellent choice. :)

Fast forward to the big day. They chose one of Raleigh’s newest wedding venues, The Maxwell, and I must say, I absolutely adore it! Very open and bright, easily transitions both indoor or out with the weather and it’s neutral colors accommodate any wedding design.

They shared a very sweet first look right on the ceremony aisle followed by their own personal vows to each other. They reminisced how it was an unlikely fit in the beginning due to their differences, but found gratitude in how those differences helped them balance one another and promised to continue to growing in ways that would compliment the other.

Ashley had family flying in from Malaysia (as well as several back home watching via live feed). She wanted to have a proper tea ceremony symbolizing the union of two families, while celebrating her Chinese heritage and introducing Phil’s family as well. I was honored to witness it; I love learning how other cultures celebrate the beginning of their new life together.

It begins with the couple honoring their elders on both sides by serving tea, then they exchange blessings and gratitudes as well as special gifts. Next the younger siblings and cousins of the couple then take their turn to honor the couple, as their elders, in the same way.

The love between the two families was palpable in this moment as they each shared gratitude, not only for the couple, but each other. Lots of laughter and tears, hugs and tea :)

Oh my goodness you two!! Thank you so much for inviting me on this journey with you!! I cannot wait to see all that is to follow! (If you ever need me to join you in Malaysia, I could make that happen… just sayin) ;)

Love you both!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Mandy with Timeless Love NC

Venue : The Maxwell

Dress: Dentelle Bridal from Malaysia

Suit: Men's Warehouse

Hair and Make Up: Pinup bridal

Florist: Teacup Florals

Officiant: Adam Davenport

DJ: Yes Raleigh

Catering: Cateringworks

Rentals: Party Reflections

Sarah and Dalton's Wedding at The Oaks at Salem

“Attitude is the difference between an ordeal and an adventure”

— Bob Bitchin

I have so very many things to say about this incredible weekend, oh my goodness! But before I go into that, take a sec and just look at how adorable these babes are! Sarah and Dalton are just one of those couples who make an impact with everyone they meet. (And I’m not even talking about their good looks! Seriously, 3 minutes into their engagement sesh, I had to ask if they’d both modeled before, both due to their looks and with how at ease they are in front of the camera and with each other. Capturing them was as easy as breathing. I knew the wedding weekend was going to be flawless…

Fast forward to this weekend! Wow!

I hardly even know where to begin. Normally I start talking about how cute the couple is and how beautiful their details were and how cool their wedding party was. But this weekend went a little different. (feel free to scroll past my ramblings and just look at the pretty photos, but I often use this blog space both for client stories, and my own inner processing)

Friday afternoon I threw out my back. Not the end of the world, it’s happened before, usually corrects itself by the next day. I knew shooting a 12 hour wedding wouldn’t be easy, but I’d get through it so I didn’t sound any alarms and just made the drive to Raleigh.

When I woke up Saturday, everything was not corrected. It was 100 times worse, as bad as my initial injury 10 years ago. I had to crawl to my phone. I had four hours to figure out how to get this wedding captured.

I already had a solid second shooter, Melissa, who also associate shoots for me from time to time and is a total rockstar. I messaged her right away and said her 7 hours of second shooting just turned into associate. She was 100% on board, but couldn’t do the full 12 hours I was contracted for. Then I messaged one of my other amazing second shooters, Guillermo to see if there was any chance on this Father’s Day weekend he could rescue me and help Melissa. He didn’t’ hesitate for a second. He hadn’t accepted any gigs this weekend so he could spend time with the family, but knew I wouldn’t ask if it weren’t an emergency. Not only could he cover the same 7 hours as Melissa, but his wife Katie is a PA at an Ortho. She called ahead and they were waiting to give me an emergency steroid shot to make me functional for the wedding I was now due to arrive at in 90 min.

I emergency blasted several Raleigh friends to see if anyone could just be my assistant, unload all my things and hold on to my extra cameras and lenses. (I usually wear a harness with 2 cameras attached to make transitions faster when I need a different lens)

My dear friends Amber and Eric came to the rescue. He was at a car show for father’s day, but she called him home, set up everything to make sure the kids were covered and let me borrow him for those first few hours. He, of course, didn’t hesitate at all!

Melissa and Guillermo took over the ceremony and portraits which gave me enough time to get the meds the Ortho had prescribed and when they both had to leave at 8 I was able to tag in and grab the last 3 hours solo. Crisis averted.

Why do I go into all that? Wouldn’t it be better to sweep that story under the rug and not let anyone know something went wrong? I don’t think so. Call me an optimist, but there are far too many valuable pieces of magic here. This crisis affirmed for me a few things, first that I will always do what it takes. And honestly, that’s just not something you truly know about yourself until that crisis arrives. It did not cross my mind for even a second to call the couple and say, “Sorry, can’t make it! Good luck!”

Second, I have surrounded myself with incredible people through the years who will jump at the chance to help me, as I would them. That is also something you can’t truly know until that chance presents itself. The way I have designed my life, it can sometimes feel like I’m disconnected from everyone because I travel almost every week. I have friends all over the country but often only see them every couple of years and while that independence is awesome, it can make you question if your friends are merely acquaintances you have a drink with occasionally, or if they are more.

In all my earlier years of working with folks who lived on the streets, the common denominator in their predicament was not drug addiction or laziness. It was a lack of network. For a myriad of reasons, they didn’t have people in their lives who would come to their aid when needed. If you have people who love you, you will have everything you ever need.

Third, the clients I am drawn to in this profession, and who tend to be drawn to me, are people who can go with flow, adapt when necessary, and trust me when I say I’ve got them. Sarah and Dalton are the epitome of that couple. When I showed up to the venue and explained the situation, they did not panic, they did not get mad, they did not question if everything was going to get handled. Both of them simply said we trust you. Thank you so much for working it out, we trust you.

And honestly, I’m sitting here bawling as I type. Having a couple’s trust is not something I take lightly. I come back to this “job” day after day not because I get a paycheck and get to dance on the weekends. I am here because I value memories deeply. It brings me life to know I have within me the ability to capture such an important moment in time and I will never take it for granted. The silver lining to it all is knowing that I deeply love what I do. Having to watch from the sidelines while my friends captured it for me made me proud to know I have an awesome crew, but made me so sad that I couldn’t participate. I love my couples, I love my friends, I love my “job” and could not be more grateful for this beautiful life. Thank you to everyone who has helped in anyway along this journey to right now. Love you.

“I hope you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life you’re proud of. If you find that you’re not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again.”

— Eric Roth

Now for the reason you’re really here…

Seriously though. Sarah and Dalton are absolute GEMS. I could not be more grateful for them, for their kindness, their grace and the love that pours out of them. Every single family member I was able to chat with while I was there spoke of how these two just go above and beyond to love on their people and how their kindness is unmatched. They love to be silly and make jokes and break into dance, but above all they are kind.

It was so special to see the deep connection they both have with their parents. This is certainly not always the case on a wedding day, so it really stands out when it’s there.

I feel like at this point, I have seen just about everything at a wedding…but these two managed to pull off TWO new things for me! First, a polish traditional dance where the bride’s family removes her veil and places an apron around her waist to signify her transition from bride to wife. All the women of the family danced in a circle around them and it was super fun!

Second, the table photo game. I must admit at first I was a little skeptical. Getting “table shots” of the couple with every table at the reception is not my favorite. As an artist, it’s hard to look past the clutter on the table and often people are still chewing their food when we get there or don’t want to get out of their seat to make a group shot, it’s usually very awkward and takes a very long time as the couple gets pulled into different conversations. I’d just as soon add all those groupings to the official family shot list and capture it “properly” in a beautiful portrait location.

I have officially changed my mind and will now recommend this to EVERYONE.

OMG it was SO fun! The DJ announced that we were going to play a game and the entire room had the length of one song to help the couple get photos with every table. It was chaotic in the best kind of way! Every table tried to one-up the last by posing in different ways and making it more fun for the couple. Not only did every single guest get captured with the couple, but everyone was belly laughing by the end and it was an incredible way to set the tone for the evening! Highly recommend!!

Omg and then we shifted into the entire room in tears as they surprised his grandparents with their wedding song. Everyone circled around them to appreciate the legacy they began when they danced to this song so many years ago.

You guys I seriously cannot thank you enough for trusting me with your memories. I adore you both and cannot wait to watch you grow and thrive together in your new adventures!

The vendors who made the day possible:

Photographers: Cynthia Viola with Melissa Toma and Guillermo Delgado

Ceremony Venue: Sacred Heart Church

Reception Venue: The Oaks at Salem

Coordinator: Southern Skies Events

Dress: Bridals by Elena

Suit: Jos A Bank

Rings: Pitman Jewelry Shop

Hair and Make Up: Head Turners- Ashley Massengill,

Florist: Blossoms Florist and Bakery

Officiant: Monsignor Brockman with Sacred Heart

DJ: East Coast Entertainment- DJ Daniel

Catering: Catering By Design

Bartending: Artful Libations

Cake: Bestow Baked Goods

Rentals: Party Reflections

Shuttle: Black Lane and Eco Style

Favors: Honey Sticks & Coozies from Etsy

Laura and Tina's Wedding at The Laurelbrook

“The world is full of magic things, patiently waiting for our senses to grow sharper”

— William Butler Yeats

What an incredible wedding weekend! Between the perfect spring weather, and awesome vendor team and the most genuine couple imaginable, it was certainly one for the books! Laura is one of the brightest little rays of sunlight you could meet. She disarms you instantly with pure kindness and grace. She had such a beautiful vision for the day down to every tiny fairy world given to every guest. (which she handmade herself!!!) She flowed so easily between each guest and what I found even more beautiful was the way Tina, who was admittedly less excited about the big crowd, kept an eye on her always, like a protector. She was so happy to see Laura so happy which made the crowd part easy. They were never more than a couple feet from each other all day. Getting ready in the same room and walking hand in hand between tables, always stealing glances at each other and it was just so very beautiful.

One of my favorite parts of the day was all the COLOR! Bloomworks used the entire rainbow in all the florals, the brides’ pink and blue dresses, the little fairy worlds, and of course all the desserts! It was so fun to photograph! And Janna’s team were rockstars of course. Every detail exactly as they wanted, every piece of the timeline right on time. So incredible to work with from the very first timeline email.

Thanks ladies for inviting me to be a part of your day!!

The Vendors who made the day Possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola Photography

Coordinator: Janna Simone Weddings and Events

Venue: The Laurelbrook

Laura’s Dress: Vow’d + Flower crown by BloomWorks

Tina’s Dress: Formalwear Outlet + Headband from NC Museum of History

Rings: Sparrowood Jeweler

Hair: Prickly Pear Salon

Florist: Bloomworks

Officiant: Pastor Tim Brown

DJ: DJ Wes

Harpist: Sarah Cavaiani with Hummingbird Harmonies

Catering: Cateringworks

Cake: Pasteryworks

Rentals: CE Rental

Get Away Car: Triangle Corporate Coach

McKenzie and Ian's Wedding at The Meadows

Oh my goodness, where to begin?!? I feel like I’ve known these babes for years now! From the first time we met in the fall of 2019 I knew right away they were perfect for each other. These two simply know how to give each other a knowing look that will either make them laugh or calm them down. Even at the rehearsal this weekend, when stresses were running high, the moment they actually took a moment to look each other in the eyes and remember why they were there, instant relief.

McKenzie has a wonderfully bubbly personality that made everyone smile all weekend, she knew just what to say or do to make us laugh. Then Ian is so down to earth and easy to be around, all of their friends talked about how they were each others’ perfect balance.

When Covid wrecked everyone’s plans last year, they decided to go ahead with a small elopement with their family and push the bigger celebration to this year. Everyone was so grateful for the joy they brought during that challenging year, and so happy to celebrate them in full this weekend.

If that day wasn’t already perfect, this weekend made everything complete. With all of their loved ones in attendance, they were celebrated fully and everyone danced the night away.

Thank you so much for inviting us to celebrate with you guys!!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola with Melissa Toma

Venue: The Meadows at Firefly Farm Preserve

Wedding Coordinator: Lauren with Carolina Bells

Hair Stylist and Make Up Artist: WINK Hair and Makeup

Florist: Sweet Love Blossoms

DJ: The Deluxe Event Group

Live Music: NC Violinist and Prince Yabani Music

Videographer: Thomas Blake Films

Photobooth: Spark Photo Booths

Catering: Fords Fluent N Food

Cake Baker: Cinda’s Creative Cakes

Alcohol: Brewmasters

Linen/Chair/Tent Services: CE Rentals

Speciality Rentals: Greenhouse Picker Sisters

Invitations: Minted

Calligraphy: Meriweather Designs

Abbey and Mayukh's Wedding at The Oaks at Salem

“Dance is the hidden language of the soul”

— Martha Graham

Well…I thought I had seen alllll the dancing at weddings. But no. With three days of Henna tattoos, bridal showers, family talents shows at a Sangeet ceremony and then, of course, the wedding and reception…. now, I feel like I’ve seen all the dancing. I had SO MUCH fun this weekend. Abbey and Mayukh were gracious enough to invite me to all the festivities that their Indian/American wedding included and I was not disappointed. So much color, good food and alll the dancing.

Abbey and Mayukh like to say they met the third time they were supposed to. After being in the same place at the same time twice and missing each other, they finally had their first conversation at a friend’s birthday party and the rest is history.

Their wedding, like so many others this year was rescheduled due to covid, and still could not include at least 100 guests who would have otherwise been here if not for travel restrictions, but it didn’t damper the fun. Both families were so happy to meet each other and celebrate with the happy couple.

The Mehndi party kicked of the weekend as all the ladies were decorated with henna.

After the wedding rehearsal and rehearsal brunch on Saturday they had the Haldi Ceremony where turmeric was placed on their head and hands by 5 married women on each side of their family. This is considered a symbol of blessing for the couple and a healthy marital life. According to Indian customs, all the married ladies of the house apply haldi to the bride and the groom in order to bless them with a long and strong relationship.

Then the dancing began. The Sangeet. Everything you’ve ever imagined about Bali dancing…. this was it. It was absolutely mesmerizing and beautiful. It truly set the tone of celebration for the rest of the weekend.

Sunday morning for the joint wedding ceremony was perfectly beautiful and every tradition for both sides was welcomed and celebrated.

I had soooo much fun celebrating with these two and hope to witness many more Indian weddings soon!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographers: Cynthia Viola with Guillermo Delgado

Venue: The Oaks at Salem

Wedding Coordinator: Aubi and Laura from The Oaks

Henna: Henna by Neena Jain

Her Dress: Pronovias from Tre Bella in Durham, NC

Wedding Party Attire: David's Bridal and Menswarehouse

The Rings: Diamond's Direct

Hair Stylist and Make up Artist: Ashley Watts

Florist: Cary Florist

Officiant: Jason Lynch

DJ: Frankie at CWDJ Entertainment

Catering: Under the Oak Restaurant and Catering

Cake Baker: I Do Cakes

Bartending: BrewMasters

Linen/Chair/Tent Services: CE Rentals

Invitations: Papel Custom Design

Favors: Wine bottle stoppers featuring a prominent compass rose on top of the stopper

Abby and Bailey's Wedding at Thistledown Farm

“When love is a habit, joy is a reflex”

— Bob Goff

You guys, I haven’t seen this much JOY at a wedding in a minute. These two are such a perfect match they cannot help but grin from ear to ear when they see each other. I’ve known Abby since she was still in elementary school and to see her so perfectly happy and content in life and with her choice in husband gives me alllllll the feels.

I captured her sister Molly’s wedding two years ago and it was so wonderful to see all the same smiling faces again, just as eager and excited to help these two celebrate. Coming from a planted church family, they have a culture of service imbedded into the dna of every member so it was all hands on deck to not only make all the pretty details, but to set up and tear down everything in record time… all with a simile on their faces, so happy to be a part of something beautiful

And let’s not forget this adorable farm venue had live chickens, piglets, horses and sheep cheering them on from the sidelines as well!

Daddy-Daughter first looks are my favorite! And these two share a special bond so it was so fun to watch them interact all day. Donnie messaged me right before I arrived to see if I could re-create an image of Abby they had taken of her as a flower girl…then he got all emotional and then I got all emotional and everyone else did too. It was a day filled with several happy tears!

They didn’t want to see each other before the wedding, so they did a first-touch instead, and watching the built up tension just melt away the moment they found each other was beautiful. They are truly the best match.

They had little Marshal run to Bailey right before Abby walked down the aisle and he was so happy to do so! The happiest little fur ball ever… just like his parents.

Bailey and Abby met in accounting class on the first day and went on their first date just a couple weeks later and have been inseparable ever since. You just never know where you’re going to find your person.

You guys thank you so much for including me in your special day! I love seeing how happy you make each other and cannot wait to see all the things you will do together in the future!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Venue: Thistledown Farm, Graham, NC

Dress: Lilian West from New York Bride and Groom

Suit: Gordons Menswear

Bridesmaid dresses: Birdy Grey

Her Ring: Olive Ave Jewelry - the Windsor Ring

His Ring: Northbands

Florist: Dave Duty

Catering: Smokehouse at Steves

Cake Baker: Maxie B's

Cara and Justin's Wedding at The Sutherland

Oh my goodness, Cara and Justin’s Sutherland Wedding this weekend was straight out of my Etsy and Pinterest dreams! At their engagement session they were so excited to highlight all the beautiful North Carolina Greens in our area parks to their Ohio family, and they loved getting to actually introduce them in person at their gorgeous venue, The Sutherland. This location paired with every beautiful detail imaginable made it a dream to photograph.

Before I can get to the wedding though, I MUST share a few of Cara’s Bridal Portraits! The hardest part of photographing them was having to wait to share! I always love the opportunity to capture a bride in the dress rehearsal. Not being especially Southern herself, Cara was a little uncertain about doing bridal portraits, but I am so glad she did, just look at this beauty! It also gave us a good feel for the venue as well as how the dress moves and whether or not she wanted to adjust her flowers or hair. I highly recommend them.

When I was chatting with the bridesmaids early in the weekend they were sharing their connection to Cara and mentioned how she has the best sense of humor and most genuine laugh and smile of anyone they know. Courtney said you feel like a rockstar when you’re able to make her laugh because she just makes you feel so good about yourself. I couldn’t agree more, she is so very kind and wonderful to be around.

At the rehearsal Cara’s grandmother Gay made everyone laugh when she boasted that she’s responsible for making all this happen. And while we all laughed, we all also realized it was such a beautiful legacy to claim. It was apparent to me right away that both of their families have already spent a lot of time together and love each other deeply. Throughout the night at any given moment they were sitting at tables together, dancing together and laughing deep belly laughs.

Justin too was praised for his kind and welcoming demeanor throughout the day. His best man, Jay told stories of how each guy in his party met him due to how he welcomed them into one activity or another and before they knew it they were friends for life. Cara and Justin have a way about them that draws everyone to them and it made the atmosphere of the whole day so very wonderful.

You guys thank you so much for inviting us to participate in your big day!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographers: Cynthia Viola with Jen Hagan

Coordinator: Shawn Schindler

Venue: The Sutherland

The Dress: Simply Blush Bridal Boutique

The Suit: Men’s Warehouse

The Rings: Schiffmans

Hair and Make Up: The Beauty Tribe

Florist: Poppy Belle Design

Officiant: Laney Margolis

DJ and Photobooth: CWDJ Entertainment

Catering: Cook Shack

Cake: Cupcake Shoppe

Rentals: CE Rentals

Signature Cocktail Sign Artist: Becky at Fitz Jenkins Fine Art

Get Away Car: Carolina Livery Transportation

Invitations: Minted

Favors: AllinCork Coasters and Great Finds Crafts Bottle Opener on Etsy

Erin and Matt's Wedding at Home

“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass...It’s about learning to dance in the rain”

— Vivian Greene

Like so many weddings planned during Covid Matt and Erin’s big day was shrouded in uncertainty. They had hoped they pushed out far enough to have the big wedding downtown with all their friends, but Covid just had other plans. Just a couple weeks before the big day they made the tough decision to cancel the plans with their beautiful venue, Vidrio, and have a small ceremony at home. They still hope to throw a big party there in the future, the date is just a little uncertain.

That didn’t stop them from committing their lives to each other through thick and thin. No matter what they go through in the future they’ll know they’ve already come through this and be stronger for it.

With grandparents unable to attend, they found other ways to include them in the ceremony and Erin also had a handkerchief made out of her Maternal grandmother's bridal gown and wrapped it around her bouquet. The penny in her shoe is the same penny her mother and grandmother used before her. Lots of beautiful traditions made this day extra special.

Her brother John, wasn’t going to be able to make it to the wedding due to covid traveling issues and she was extremely sad because they’re quite close. However, at the final moment he was able to pull it together and surprise her the morning of the wedding. Everyone was a bundle of tears and filled with joy. We decided to include him on the first look with dad and that made it even more memorable.

As with all weddings that have had to move forward during Covid, they were unable to have the majority of friends and family in attendance. They set up a zoom call though and were able to include them via video, as well as several face time calls after ward.

The sparklers *may have all been duds but that didn’t stop them OR the rest of the family from partying! They ran through spirit fingers to everyone’s delight concluding the happiest of days.

I had so much fun with you guys! Thank you for including me on your special day!

The vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Coordinator: Kyle Riggan

Dress: Mon Cheri Bridal from Channy Bride & Beyond

Suit: Jos A. Bank

Party attire: Azazie and Jos A. Bank

Rings: Raleigh Diamond

Hair and Make Up: The Makeup Addict

Officiant: Kayelily Middleton

Catering: Ashley Christensen Catering

Cake Baker: Once in a Blue Moon Bakery

Florist: Expressions of Love

Invitations: Minted

Leann and Jeremy's Wedding at Sacred Heart

“And after all this time
I’m still into you”

— Paramore

These two have been together for like a decade and are just as adorable and happy now as they were when they met. Everyone who knows them was so excited to celebrate their happy day and then of course Covid had other plans. (insert eye roll and dramatic sigh)

They are actually one of the few Covid weddings I've had this year that decided to go ahead with the wedding after changing the date and having to face changing it again. 25 people can be JUST as fun as 200 though when they're your closest friends. The bridal suite was a dance party all morning and each person showed up fully present and ready to make 25 feel like 200. Everyone pitched in to make sure things showed up on time and in the right location, carried boxes, sanitized surfaces, pinned boutonnieres, curled hair, drove caravans and kept the music going.

Starting with the First Look, including the ceremony and the reception speeches Jeremy was all emotions all day and the way Leann wiped each tear was so precious and gentle. They both care deeply for each other and were simply grateful to have the freedom to say “I do” in the middle of 2020’s madness (not to mention the job and city changes they also had this year!)

They wanted to do a bubble exit as they left the church, but like so many other changes from covid they had to go with sparklers, and like every other change it turned out better than we’d hoped. Daylight sparkler exits have their own kind of magic!

During the final toasts Kat talked about how it’s not “them against the world,” but them as ambassadors for each other TO the world, and that rang so true. They’ve been there for each other over and over in each of life’s challenges, and they will continue to do so moving forward.

You guys thank you so much for including me in your big day! I wouldn’t have changed a thing, your crew was one of a kind!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Ceremony Venue: Sacred Heart

Reception Venue and Catering: Crabtree Marriott

Her Dress: Moonlight from Unveiled Couture in Greenville NC

His Attire: Men's Warehouse

Hair: Bekah Ellen

The Rings: Custom made from repurposed family heirlooms by Quercus Raleigh

Florist: The English Garden

Officiant: Father Ian VanHeusen

Cake Baker: Cinda's Creative Cakes 

WRAL Azalea Gardens Elopement | Dawn and Darren

“Because of your smile, you make life more beautiful.”

— Thich Nhat Hanh

“Your smile just jumped off the paged and captured me,” Darren shared with Dawn as he read his vows with a tear rolling down his cheek. They had met on a dating site and he shared with her that from her photo she glowed from within and spoke to him in a way that he couldn’t explain, and he loved her for it.

“I’ve never told you this before, but you make me feel safe. More than I have ever felt in my life.” Dawn too, read her vows through tears and each of their friends and I cried right along with her.

I’ve not had the opportunity to shoot many elopements, but it was so special to be so close to them the entire ceremony and hear every word so clearly and feel each emotion as they felt them. These two share a bond that is hard to match and it was palpable as they laughed and cried together throughout the ceremony.

We began the day with a few casual portraits at JC Raulston Arboretum and Darren arrived first explaining Dawn’s map had sent her another direction. So we took a few headshots and chatted about how they met and such. The sweetest moment for me, however, was when Dawn arrived and got out of the car, Darren couldn’t help but say allowed, “Wow, look how beautiful she looks.” She couldn’t hear him and I don’t think he even realized I could, he just had to state allowed what he felt and the look on his face as he did was filled with so much love. I knew the rest of the day would be magical.

We hadn’t planned any sort of first look moment, but it just worked out that Darren was finished setting up right as Dawn was arriving and with a few quick adjustments I was able to hide Dawn before he saw her and set it up properly. The added anticipation made the moment so much more special. They couldn’t wait to see each other!

The running joke during the ceremony, (besides the fact that Darren wrote a novel) was that they couldn’t stop touching or kissing each other. They were so excited they couldn’t wait until they were “allowed” to. So precious!

Their first date was at Second Empire so they decided to celebrate there as a way to start off their official married life as well. Congratulations again you guys! I’m so happy for you both, thank you for letting me participate in your sweet day!

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Ceremony Venue: WRAL Azalea Gardens

Reception Venue: Second Empire

Dress: Adrianna Papell

Rings: Gabriel & Co. of NY

Officiant: Rev. Robert Chalnick

Lifepointe Church Wedding | Molly and Nick

“Once in awhile, right in the middle of an ordinary life, love gives us a fairy tale”

— Anonymous

Molly and Nick had just shared their incredibly heartfelt vows with each other, they had jumped with excitement for that first kiss and were ready to be announced to run down the aisle into their new life together and Donnie, the pastor, her father, said he had a surprise for them.

He shared a story of how Nick’s family, every year at Christmas held stockings for their children’s future spouses. They prayed over them and for the life that they would some day have with this person, knowing that these moments brought before God mattered and would make a difference in the people who would some day be a part of their family. Donnie then pulled the stocking from behind the arbor and handed it to Nick to give to Molly. You could hear the gasps across the room.

Next, he shared how they had also prayed as a family over their daughters’ future spouses and how Molly had made promises and vows from a very early age to her God and to her future spouse, to remain pure of body, heart and mind. She wore a promise ring to signify this huge commitment. Donnie, pulled the ring out of his pocket and handed it to Molly to give to Nick. All the handkerchiefs in the room gained a few tears in that moment. These two have been made for each other, prayed for, sought after and now finally joined for life.

In what was arguably the most anticipated wedding of the year for so many people, myself included, everyone got to experience a love like no other. These two families have such a deep and powerful love for each other, it radiates throughout the entire church. I have been mentored by all 4 of their parents in various capacities through the years and I mentored Molly through middle and high school. The deep well of connection and love we all have for each other is palpable.

One of my favorite parts of the day was, of course, their first look. It was brought up several times in toasts, their self written vows, the sermon, just what an adventurer Molly is and how Nick adores her for it so there was no question as to whether or not they’d be willing to go a bit off the beaten path in order to get the best photos. We had to drag some fallen trees out of the way and push through the brush a bit, but it was worth it for these magical moments. I love couples willing to do what it takes for the best light.

If there’s any moment in a wedding that is going to get me teary-eyed, it’s always the moments involving beautiful father-daughter relationships. I’m lucky enough to have a great relationship with my dad and when someone else does too it brings on all the feels. This day was even more so because not only does Molly have a great relationship with her dad, but Donnie has been like a father and mentor to me in many ways through the years. We have similar back stories and as he was getting emotional during the sermon talking about his little girl growing up I couldn’t help but be proud of her and thankful for the huge circle that has tied us all together so tightly.

Every single detail from the welcome signs to the desserts were DIY projects completed by the whole family. It was even Nick’s idea to write thoughtful notes to every family in attendance. With much anticipation, so many wonderful people from the church family helped with set up and tear down. Having been a newly planted church just a few years back it is built into the DNA of the people to jump in and help wherever needed and that was realized in real life for this couple that has been so well loved by us all.

Molly and Nick I cannot thank you enough for letting me be a part of your day and your lives. I love you both for exactly who you are as individuals and who I know you will become as a couple. So excited for this next chapter.

The Vendors and Friends who made the Day Possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Venue: Lifepointe Church

Coordinators: Cinda Williams and Leslie Arthur

Her Dress: Reagan Dress from BHLDN

His Suit: Reaction by Kenneth Cole

Bridesmaid Dresses: Pink Blush

Groomsmen Attire: H&M & Etsy

Engagement Ring: Minimal VS

Wedding Bands: Brummitt Studio

Florist: Dave Duty

Officiants: Rob Perry and Donnie Williams

Videographer: Grace Copeland

Catering: DIY, friends and family

Cake Baker: Cinda Williams

Our Lady of Lourdes Wedding | Evelyn and Lawrence

“Love is composed of a single soul inhabiting two bodies.”

— Aristotle

You just never know where you’re going to find your next favorite couple. Evelyn sent me a message after having seen a comment I’d made on the Blind Barbour’s Instagram Page. We both share an affinity for the place and of course Joey and Michelle who own it. After a quick conversation we decided to meet up at The NC Museum of Art where she and Lawrence had shared their first date and I knew right away we’d be a perfect fit.

Evelyn wasn’t a typical bride; she made it very clear, while this day was about both of them, of course, she wanted me to focus my attention on her groom. “I want him to feel loved and adored,” she said. Such a refreshing concept. While the day in general moved pretty quick, I know they’ll be talking about it for years to come.

Every one of the guests couldn’t stop talking about just how happy they were for them. When Lawrence crooned “I can’t help falling in love with you,” to his new bride the whole room was in tears and we all loved them that much more.

The Vendors who made the day possible:

Photographer: Cynthia Viola

Venue: Our Lady Of Lordes Catholic Church

Florist: Flowers on Broad

Officiant: Father Garneau

Catering: Neomande

Cake Baker: Raleigh French Bakery

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